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Monthly Archives: January 2017

Ideas for Special Romantic Anniversary

A Nice Dinner
Since it is your anniversary, plan a special evening at a romantic restaurant. Some restaurants will honor special requests to accommodate the special day in your life. Candlelight, soft music and a dimly lit room are all little extras that are sure to be enjoyed while sharing a meal together.

Bubble Baths At Home
What can be more romantic than spicing the night up by sharing a nice hot and relaxing bubble bath together? Get out the candles and a bottle of the best bubbles and see how hot things can get!

Exchange Gifts
A gift on the anniversary symbolizes how much your significant other means to you. Choose a gift from the heart that will show your love just how much they are appreciated and how lucky you are to have them in your life. Don’t forget the card! A heartfelt card is a shoo-in for romance! Where It All Began If you are still in the area where you first met your spouse, make it a point to spend your anniversary recreating that special day when two hearts collided into one and head to the place that you met. Both will love the special significance of reliving those glorious memories.

Take Time Together
The most romance comes from simply being together on this very special day. Whether you are at home or out on the town include plenty of hugs, kisses and attention on the agenda. That is what will help make it memorable and so special. Romance is important any time during a relationship and celebrating the anniversary makes it even more important.

Tips to Help Find Love After Breakup

1. Don’t Be The Past You

Of course you don’t want to talk to your dates about your ex and all the things they did to hurt your heart, you probably know that already, but I’m talking about leaving the past in the past for yourself.

Your ex may have caused you to feel as though you are not a good kisser, talker, or even lover, and you may be holding those beliefs inside your head and becoming anxious over them. Try to remember that your past is just your past and you are not that person any longer. You can be a good kisser, talker, or lover now and you don’t have to tell yourself otherwise. And for the most part, anything your ex told you was out of spite or anger – it doesn’t mean that what they said was true.

2. Don’t Be Needy

If you want to find love again and you are starting to feel that it is a mission of yours, then you will start to come across as being needy, and that’s not good. That will push (scare) away any potential love interests and cause you to become even more needy when they run away. Stay cool. Stay relaxed. And let love find you!

3. Don’t Find Love in Your Ex if It’s Not There

Sometimes after a breakup you can start to miss your ex and remember the good times and traits your ex had. You may forget about all the bad times you had together and how your ex didn’t treat you well in your relationship. This happens all the time.

Let me save you the double heartache with your ex. You will end up back together. It will be good for a while. And then you WILL break up again. Millions of people do it everyday! It doesn’t work if the issues that were there before are still there, and if you haven’t fixed the issues then they WILL still be there.

As hard as it may be, find love with someone new. Someone who doesn’t have the issues your ex did. The chances of you finding love that will last are much higher.

4. Don’t Look For Someone Like Your Ex

If you are looking for someone who talked to you in that baby voice you liked or understood you when you ‘gave them a look’ then you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

Your ex and you had a unique bond, one that you will probably not find with someone else. That’s why it was unique! They may have gotten you on a level that no one else can, but that doesn’t mean that someone else can’t get you on an even better level! Don’t expect certain things when you want to find love or you may be setting someone new up for failure.

5. Don’t Expect To Find Love

If you set yourself up with high expectations of finding love right now, because you want it, then you may get let down and start to get angry, hurt, or even depressed.

Love is something that is going to come when you are ready, not when you demand it. Expectations can often result in disappointment, and disappointment can result in giving up or heading back to your ex. Both of those situations would not be good.

Secrets of Finding Love for the Second Time

The one you loved the most is gone; left you with broken heart and damaged trust; whether it was tragic end or mutual understanding, it is inevitable to avoid the feelings of being lost and hopeless when you say goodbye to your first love. You are isolating yourself from others and ignoring the advice of friends and family but one day you will realize it is time to pick up yourself and welcome love for the second time in your life. The following suggestions will help you to achieve that:

1. Allow yourself time to heal

You cannot build a strong house on a scattered ground; give yourself some time to over come both emotional and physical damage from last relationship before moving on to a new one. Jumping into another relationship may sound like the best way to forget what happened but unbalanced mind can affect your decision to choose the right person.

2. Leave the past in the past

You might find it tempting to stock your ex on Facebook or Twitter to see if he/she has moved on but if you hang onto your past you may not treat your future one right and it is not fair to the person who wants to be with you. So try to resist the feeling and tell yourself that you and your past partner no longer share a life together and what he/she is up to is none of your business.

3. Don’t compare it with your first love

No two people are exactly the same but it is unavoidable that you will compare this new person in your life with the one you were used to be with for a long time. You might find some habits of him/her odd and unfamiliar; thinking, “Why he/she sleeps with no pillow? My ex never used to do that!” or “He/She doesn’t like to cook! My ex used to love cooking!”. Before making any judgment, celebrate the differences in people and remember variety is what makes life more interesting!

4. Learn from your old relationships

Think about the rights and wrongs of your past experience and try to avoid making the same mistake twice; this applies to how you chose your partner, how you two got together, how your relationship developed and carried on, and how it all ended. It will help you to spot any trouble in your new love in an early stage and to work on it.

5. Be ready to compromise

What we got used to always seems to be comfortable and older we get, harder it gets to change our life habits such as early bedtime and house tidiness etc. It will be same for your new partner as well; so talk about the things you find difficult in each other’s habits and find a point to compromise; but do not forget that not all fixed attitude such as excessive drinking, abusive language and lying is agreeable and if your judgment says “No” make sure you put it across!

Ways to spice up Relationship

1. Play games and have fun

Try to get a break from your busy schedule. Sit down together and play games or do something that will make you laugh. You will have fun. Try playing strip poker. Share a joke with your loved one; have fun.

2. Add Variety

To break away from the monotonous life of work and sleep, try to introduce variety in small things; things which you do daily. Cook your lover a nice meal, or watch their favourite show together. Experiment with your x life. Try out new ways to pleasure her/him. This will spice up your relationship easily.

3. Communicate-Talk to him/her

The best way is to open up to your partner. Tell them the things you want to do or experience. Listen to what they have to say. Share the things which turn you on and reciprocate the feeling. Communication is very important in any relationship. Find out what your partner likes to do. Try and fulfill his/her fantasies.

4. Element of Surprise

Your partner will love surprises. Be creative. Send her a nice bouquet or chocolates. If he is your man, surprise him by dressing up in your best lingerie. The element of surprise always kills the monotonous nature of a relationship. You can even cook a nice meal or surprise her at work.

5. Book a last minute weekend trip

This will bring out the spontaneity in your relationship. Both of you can enjoy a serene and fun filled weekend together.

6. Update your photo album

You can make a scrapbook filled with photos of all the fun and memorable moments you guys shared together. Sit back with him and watch these photos. It is always pleasurable to re-visit good memories.
7. Be naughty

You can mail him/her a xy photo of yours. You can follow it up by a naughty message. Be open about your desires. Tell him/her your fantasies and that you are waiting for him/her to return.

8. Go on a date!

While this may seem so common and random, but take your time and think: when was the last time you had gone out on a date with him/her? Amidst the busy schedule, take her out to his/her favourite hang-out. Have a good time.

9. Make the right effort

Do not be lazy and laid back. When your partner wants you to be a part of any activity, do help him/her out willingly. Doing work together might lead to some romantic moments.

10. Celebrate your love

Often couples stop celebrating occasions when they have been together for a long time. Rekindle those moments. Surprise your partner; celebrate the fact that he/she is with you.