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Monthly Archives: October 2016

Tips Make Relationship Strong

Here are some tips which would definitely help you bring back the spark and get the romance back into your relationship.

  • First and foremost, you need to communicate and communicate freely. Couples often shy or hide stuff from each other because of various reasons. Usually they don’t want to hurt the other person, so they think it’s better to stay quite rather than talk out thing and create a problem. But what they don’t realize is that not communicating and keeping things to yourself can lead to bigger problems. In such a case you remain entangled in your own problems and the other person is left wondering what’s wrong with you. Otherwise also, it’s always good to talk out all the differences so that both of you are on the same tangent.
  • Secondly, give the other person space in a relationship. Though it is important to communicate in a relationship, it is also equally important to give space to each other so that a person doesn’t feel suffocated. It is a common problem that a person often has problem when their partner goes out with their friends. You need to understand that your partner has a life of his own which comprises of their friends and family. If they are spending quality time with you and if they are paying enough attention to your relationship, then, you should not feel threatened if they are going out with friends or family.

Also, it is great if you both could join a hobby or a sport together. It would give you not only more time to spend together, but it’ll also be a nice exercise for your mind and body, which would keep you in a healthy and happy mental state. The hobby could be anything, be it painting, dancing, singing, gymming, biking etc.

  • Going on a vacation together is no doubt one of the easiest ways to strengthen your bond. The entire act of packing and travelling would bring you both closer. And exploring new places together would definitely keep you both excited and energized.
  • Another way to make your bind strong is to be cordial and close to your partner’s family and friends. They would like it if you make an effort to adjust with the rest of the people in their life.
  • Last but not the least, giving surprises and gifts to your partner is one of the oldest tricks of the trade to keep your partner happy and wanting for more!

Reasons why readers make Fantastic Lovers

  1. Readers are smarter and more intelligent. Reading makes people wise, and that’s a fact. They get higher GPA and have an overall knowledge of various topics. And making reading a lifetime habit is great for sharpening your mind and preventing Alzheimer disease.
  2. A reading man is responsive, imaginative, and creative in figuring out solutions to a problem. Book lovers do well in a sticky situation. They learned diverse world, people and views. Their creative thoughts can make life and conversation interesting. You can never know what will surprises you next second.
  3. They get better memory, and they will never forget your anniversary. Digesting what they’re reading, character, scene or plot can keep renewing and strengthening their brains. Therefore, they can remember daily routines better.
  4. They are less likely to be overstressed. Reading is a pleasant pastime, and they can hit the books if they need to find a way to vent the pressure. This also benefits their partners. Any trifle easily triggers a quarrel between a stressed couple.
  5. With an impressive vocabulary and storytelling ability, people who love reading make wonderful conversationist. Nothing is worse than an awkward conversation on a date. Comparing to people reading less, they have a border vocabulary and are better spoken. Therefore, it’s interesting to talk with them. They often think about life in a unique and deep way, which can rise your conversation to a higher and funnier level.
  6. They look more artistic and erudite. They are more likely to make arts, go to concert or museum. What do you think about such a date?
  7. They are more likely to get an ample salary and succeed in their careers. Lacking of reading and writing skills is the biggest shortcoming of new employee. Therefore, the readers have greater chance to get an offer. Moreover, they are more likely to take a management position, naturally get a higher salary.
  8. They are more obliged to fulfill their social responsibilities. Not only do they take votes in election, but also are more willing to do volunteer works. Being selfless makes one more glamorous, and volunteering together can get your relationship intimate and harmonious.
  9. They are understanding and empathetic. They empathize others and understand other’s idea, feeling and world view. Empathy is crucial to a relationship in reducing disputes and harmonizing this connection.
  10. They are passionate, vibrant, clever and complex. If you are with a reader, consider yourself lucky. With an incredible mind, imagination, wit and heart, they will challenge you quite unlike anyone else has before

Unconditional Love

Our parents loved us in the best way they could and if we were lucky – that was unconditional. However, not all parents are capable of giving it unconditionally. Parenting is challenging – to say the least. Then there is the programming passed down through the generations on how to parent via society and family. I personally think it takes a really conscious person to develop and follow their own road map to parenting. That is a topic for another time. For now, we are talking about unconditional love.

What does loving unconditionally mean? In my most humble opinion – it is, loving someone without attachment or the desire to receive anything in return – including returned love. It is giving without any expectations or ROI (return on investment). Unconditional love is limitless, boundless and unchanging. Most of the time we humans – put conditions on it. We say: “I will love you, if….” Or “I am falling out of love with you because….”

Unconditional love has an element of altruism at it’s’ core. Altruism is a virtue. It is selflessness without the feelings of duty or the need to be loyal. If we feel it is our duty to give of ourselves – that is a moral obligation and not unconditional. Being altruistic is sacrificing self with no expectation to be compensated, in any way. This also includes any expectation of becoming enlightened, gaining merit or going to heaven.

I know this is a touchy subject and at the same time, it must be mentioned. There are people who perform deeds with the above intentions in mind. I think it is wonderful to give and help and I also believe we have to be clear about why we are doing something. What is the motivation? If the intention is to gain in any way – it cannot be considered unconditional.

So, how do we obtain this seemingly illusive form of love? First of all, I believe we have to give it to ourselves. We must love all the aspects of self, including the aspects we don’t like. I know this sounds hard, and at the same time it is the truth. Our world is a mirror. It mirrors back to us our beliefs and feelings. If we don’t love ourselves, we will just get that mirrored back – sometimes in a very big way. We must dig into our subconscious to ferret out all the ways we sabotage receiving the love we so desperately seek.

Secondly, we must stop looking to other people to give us love of any kind. If we consistently look outside of ourselves for someone else to love us, we will never get it – it’s the mirror again.

Thirdly, we do receive unconditional love. It’s all around us – we just need to see it. It is our view of the world that causes us not to see that we are loved. We are – each of us – a part of the Great Mother and Father, who loves us unconditionally. It really doesn’t matter what we have or haven’t done – we are still loved. One group of people isn’t loved any more or less than any other group of people. Think about it, when it rains – doesn’t everyone outside get wet?

I know this is a simple example and maybe I should make it more complex. The point is however, if we look within we will feel the love that we seek. The Great Mother and Father live within each of us. They are waiting for us to look in the mirror of self. When we do this, their love is reflected back to us. It is boundless, altruistic, unchanging, and unconditional, no strings attached love. We then will begin to see things as they really are.

Facts Concerning Love

Here square measure some psychological facts concerning love:

Vein of affection

Do you why couple wears their band of the fourth finger of their left hand? It’s to believe classical mythology that there’s vein through this finger that is direct joined to the guts. Thus sporting ring during this finger show a logo of a powerful bond.

Pain of affection

Being taken with is simply concerning happiness and care; it’ll additionally offer your physical or mental pain. It’s one in every of the psychological science facts concerning love is that you simply could become too possessive or perpetually in concern or stress of losing the one you love.

All that matters is love.

Many studies have shown that nobody should buy love together with his wealth. It’s a lot of valuable than power or million greenbacks. You’ll get luxury however not love; it’s the sole issue that matters within the finish.

Hard to steer away

This one could be a true truth concerning love; it’s straightforward to like somebody than to steer away. If somebody is deeply taken with that person can’t live while not his beloved. It perpetually feels sensible and gratifying to be around somebody you like.

Goosebumps in abdomen

Feeling Goosebumps in your abdomen before proposing or spoken communication those 3 sorcerous words is another psychological facts concerning love. Such feeling is like doing acrobats once your brain comes within the stage of a fight along with your heart. You’ll feel frazzled or butterfly feeling.

Minutes to decide: is it enticing or not.

Psychologist says that it take solely a number of minutes to make a decision whether or not you wish somebody or not. In such scenario, the most person can say one thing and do something; even they need modified their tone.

Humor and intelligence

According to psychological science girls sort of a man World Health Organization possess an excellent sense of humor and physique. Men like those girls with intelligence and World Health Organization have bone structure and have some alikeness with their mother. This can be additionally referred to as “sexual imprinting”.

Eyes contact will synchronize heartbeat.

If you examine the attention of the one you love, each of your heart gets synchronous. U.S life scientist Davis checked heterosexual couples pulse rate and located that their heart rates adjust if they co-regulated their psychologies with their beloved partner.

Love Addiction

Intense part of affection offers identical ecstasy as junky gets from smoking cocaine. Being taken with will increase the amount of nor vasoconstrictive, epinephrine and monoamine neurotransmitter chemicals poignant your emotions and feelings.

Love is medicinal drug

One of the facts of affection is that once each partners cuddle one another internal secretion internal secretion seems in ovaries, brain, and testicles that decrease a headache and act as a medicinal drug.